Rule #7: Let’s talk about it…

Hello guys,

WARNING: THIS ENTRY IS NOT CHILD FRIENDLY!!!!

I have this song playing in my head by Salt-N-Pepa … “Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me, let’s talk about all the good things and all the bad things that may be… let’s talk about sex.”

I am so excited to bring this conversation up, OMS (Oh my sweets). Now I am a newbie at this but I think this conversation is more geared towards women who were like me. So, a little history on me…. I did not have intercourse before getting married. I engaged in A WHOLE BUNCH OF foreplays but never the full course meal (if you get my drift… lol) because I was wanted to save myself for my husband for 2 reasons:

1. Religious
2. I thought it was beautiful for my husband to be the only man to have enjoyed me in that way

I digress, the reason I wanted to talk about sex is because in most cases women who were once like me (inexperienced) kinda get uncomfortable when it comes to having this conversation with their spouse; especially if they are not being pleased properly. I want you to know it is very healthy to talk about sex, sexual pleasures and sexual aspirations with your spouse. You would be so SURPIRSED by some things they say. If you do not know what questions to ask, go on Amazon and look for a sex game that has questions and dares in them. Create a pleasure game night with you and your boo and GO TO TOWN on your forever person.

SO a few months ago, I shocked my husband because I bought an arousal gel and he could not believe that I purchased it. He was completely dumbfounded. I explained to him what I planned to do with it and he shared what he always wanted to do with his wife (that would be me… heheh) . We shared these ideas and did them together. He never approached me about these things because he did not feel comfortable talking about sex.. well with me. I had to reminded him that all of him belongs to me and all of me belongs to him, it makes no sense to be selfish and not share his sexual pleasures with me.

The gist of this entry is DO NOT BE SELFISH and keep your sexual pleasures or things you may want to experience to yourself. The Lord blessed you with a spouse to do life with, if the Lord says the bedroom is undefiled in his eye then why should you be uncomfortable about it. Child, you better GGOOO TO TOWN with your spouse. Don’t be selfish; go ahead and talk about it.